Day 19. My family cooked out yesterday and I was telling everyone that it was day 17. I don't know why? Everyday needs to count.
I think the best thing to do in a situation like a BQ is to acknowledge that you would like to eat those things and then drink some water or lemonade to settle your cravings. I was able to successfully interact with everyone without the thought of eating all of the delicious BQ and desserts. I'm almost half way to my goal of 40 days.